User Groups:

Boston Dot Net User Group

Visual Basic Pro

New England SQL Server

Rhode Island Dot Net User Group

New Hampshire SQL Server

ASP.Net Web Development

IIS Server Security Tips Web Server Security help and tutorials for Microsoft IIS server admins. Tutorials written for experts, by experts, as well as message boards for admins to post questions and answers.
 

Individual Developers/Blogs

Multi-Technology Development Sites:

SQL-Server-VB-ASP.net - The most complete links page for .Net development.

A complete online source to download free programming files, source code, tools and more for a whole range of languages and technologies, including VB, C/C++/C#, .NET and Java.

VisualBasicScript.com  Links to many related development topics.

DevGuru

DotNetSpider  .Net tutorials, articles, etc.

4 Guys from Rolla

Good collection of articles and links.

Methods and Tools

Loads of scripts and code samples.

Content, community, and service for Visual Basic professionals. Providing technical discussion, job postings, an integrated directory, news, and much more.

SQL

SQL Server Portal - Articles, links and Jobs relating to SQL Server.

SQL Server Directory - Articles, links, etc. about SQL Server.

SQL Server Magazine

SQL Server Central

SQL Server Performance

SQL PASS - Professional Association for SQL Server

ASSQL Articles and links for SQL

SQL Corner and SysAdminCorner.  Covers several databases.

Site and newsletter devoted to SQL Server DTS

SQLSecurity - Security focused information.

ASP/ASP.Net/Web Development

Tutorials and other material related to ASP, SQL, and related topics.

Dot Net

A must visit site for .Net articles, tutorials and demos targeted at beginner to advance users.

a sited devoted to Web Development.

XML

TopXML

XML.org

Oasis - XML Standards organization.

Web Site Creation and Promotion

Freelance Design
FreelanceDesigners.com

The Dot Com Superhero.  Resources for Web Site Promotion and Search Engine Optimization

Variety Search Engine Portal

Screen-Scenes Affordable Pay-Per-Click Advertising

Visual Basic

Visual Basic tutorials

VB Helper.com VB Helper

Massachusetts Business Directories

www.mass.biz An up and coming business directory for all of Massachusetts.

Search Engines and Directories

Prime Find .net

Click on the graphic to vote for this page as a Starting Point Hot Site. 

Taten Directory

Event Schedule

Event Calendar

Hardware Suppliers

MemorySuppliers.com Supplier of add on memory of all types. I just used them for a server RAM upgrade.